“ 3 Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted”

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“ 3 Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted”

Ever wonder why men can act so “hot and cold” and lose interest so quickly?

You meet a great guy and share an amazing “connection”… but then he suddenly stops calling and making plans.

Why is this so common? Even with guys who seem great at first?

The truth is that even if you and a man are getting close… he won’t be honest tell you when he’s not FEELING ATTRACTED to you anymore. But the good news is that it’s easy to have a man start “feeling it” for you again- when you know what to do.

So let’s start with understanding what’s going on INSIDE HIS MIND.

If you can learn what a man is FEELING, and then learn to create feelings of ATTRACTION inside him, EVERYTHING in your relationship will become easier.

In fact, if you do this right, your man will be begging YOU for more.

Here’s where to start creating this kind of intense ATTRACTION with a man:

Tip #1: A Man Can See You As Needy, Even When You’re Not

Did you know that a woman doesn’t actually have to be “needy” for a man to get that icky feeling inside when he’s around her? The common and subtle ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support that bring you and your “friends” closer, can actually make a man feel anxious and “smothered” by you. “Why didn’t you call yesterday?” can be the very definition of “needy” to a man.

Tip #2: Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women

Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the “everyday” stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life... and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.

Tip #3: Creating A Level Of “Unpredictability” With Him Never Fails

If a man can’t guess what you’ll do or say next, he’ll be thinking and wondering about you. Learn to create a level of UNPREDICTABILITY, and it will work magic. Use humor and teasing when possible. Men love it… as this is one of their primary languages for bonding and connection.

By the way… the way you make a man feel around you in the first few minutes can decide whether you’re “just a fling” to him, or his “true love.”

Which one will you be? Here are a few of the other things you’re about to learn:

• How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He'll know you're "the one" for him from the first day you meet)
  
• The inside scoop on what's REALLY going on inside a man's mind when you first meet, when you start dating, and when you’ve been “serious” for a while
  
• How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a "casual" partner (Use this early on and he'll want to see YOU and only you ... keep it up and he'll love you forever )
  
• The differences in how men think about dating... and why your man won’t think or talk “commitment” unless you know the easy ways to inspire these feelings in him
  
• How to "cheat-proof" your relationship... and why he might be tempted
  
• The truth about men who aren't "emotionally available"... how to know if you've got one and what to do if you're dating one
  
• And lots more...

How to Deal with your Wife By: smilesatme1

Dealing with your wife is really not difficult if you have the same interests in life. In marriage relationships, there always an up and down in life. But holding each other and helping to resolve the differences will really make you lives happier.

Step1

Good communication and understanding each other will make your marriage life more fruitful and easy to live with.

Step2

Be honest and explain to your partners any problems that needs more talks.

Step3

Always respect each other no matter what the situation might be in your relationship.

How to Propose for Marriage, the Filipino style By: Viol

Filipinos considered marriage as an important and special event in their lives. In this event, the couple would seek the guidance and blessings of their parents as they enter this sacred matrimony. Friends and relatives are also involved in this process.

Step1

When a man and woman decided to get married they would inform their parents about the plan.

Step2

The man's parents would come and pay a visit to the woman's house to talk about the proposal. Usually they would hire somebody as their spokesman he might be a relative of the man or close friend who would act as facilitator of the said proposal. ( they called it pamanhikan) They would bring food with them.

Step3

It is the prerogative of the woman's parents to accept the proposal or decline it. If they do accept the proposal, they would be given the chance to ask what they would want for their daughter. (they called it dowry)

Step4

The woman's parents and relatives then will set the date and the place where the wedding takes place and that includes the reception, but the man will provide all the financial needs for the wedding not the woman.

Step5

The lady's side would be given the priority for the request they would make, because they are greatly honored in this occasion.

Step6

Since the man's group have prepared food for this occasion, the food would be served after everything is set up and agreed. Everybody would have fun eating and enjoying themselves.

Step7

The usual time for the wedding preparation is 3-4 months, so then the guy would spend time with the lady's family in their house, helping and learning more about his new family and so with the lady she will also spend time with the guy's family to make herself more comfortable with them.

How to Be a Friend, the Filipino way By: Viol

Filipinos are known to be very accommodating, friendly and hospitable people. They are willing to sacrifice what they have just to have something to offer to a friend. They used to invite their friends at home for special gatherings and fun time. They are quick to respond to a friend's need of help.

Step1

When someone has a problem, friends are there to offer help of anything they could do like financial and moral support of any kind. They are willing to sacrifice just to help their friend.

Step2

When they have parties or special gatherings, they will invite all their friends to grace the occasion and that includes their family members. (imagine how many they are going to feed?)

Step3

When somebody is sick, the friends would spend time to visit and be with them, offer some help they could do even to the extent of sacrificing their time and their job just to be with a friend.

Step4

When hosting a party, the host would see to it that everybody is well accommodated and feed. They usually pack some goods for their friends to take home. They never want their friends to go home without take home goodies.

Step5

Treating the children of their friends like their own. How they take good care of their children, they will do it the same way with the kids of their friends.

Step6

They will share what special food or things they have to their friends. Every time they have special things, they would set aside something for their friends.

Step7

Typical Filipinos are good and

How to Take good care of a Lady as most Filipino guys do By: VIOL

Typical Filipino guys are caring and gentle to the ladies. They don't want to see ladies working the manly work at home or anywhere. They really offered to help specially in carrying heavy things. Ladies felt good with the presence of men on the job because of their caring attitude.


Step1

On the road while walking, the man should always stay in the danger side protecting the ladies and making it sure ladies are safe.

Step2

In the restaurant, men should wait on the line to get their order while the ladies sit down and wait for the food to be served.

Step3

When riding, the man would open the door for the lady and let her come in first before the man gets in. In Jeep and Buses, the man would let the women get in and he would be last and in coming down from jeep and bus, the man should go down first assisting the woman to come down making it sure she is safe.

Step4

In passenger buses, train and Jeep, the man would give their seats to women and old people who have no seats and are standing.

Step5

When women are carrying heavy things anywhere specially during travels, men would offer to help and carry the things for them.

Step6

In the house, most women are dependent to men in doing heavy and manly work because men do not want family members who are women to do heavy things.

How To Pursue A Young Lady–Four Things You Should Know By: Perry Noble

So, we’ve been in this “Sex, Money & Power” series and I’ve talked a lot about the husband and wife relationship. SO…I wanted to take a second or two to speak to the single dude out there who has been wrestling with this question, “So…how do I find a wife/pursue a lady?”

Call me old fashioned…but Proverbs 18:22 says that he who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. So…here are five things I think a guy should do….

#1 - Be Persistent In Prayer!

I remember WAY before I began dating Lucretia I began to pray for my future wife…I had no idea who she was…but God knew. I prayed for God to bless her…for God to draw her close to Him…and for God to allow her to somehow think I was incredibly good looking! :-) (See–prayer works!)

Also–the verse I mentioned above mentions receiving favor from the Lord–guys, I think everyone of you should, when praying for his future mate, ask God for favor. He blessed me with favor–I married WAY over my head. Once again–prayer works.

#2 - Be Honest!

Don’t play games! Be up front and tell her exactly how you feel. And…don’t send your friend to do it for you. Don’t begin a “texting relationship.” Speak with her–without your friends or her friends being there…and don’t hold back.

Now I MUST throw in this disclaimer because some freak is going to read that and, within 10 minutes of the first date tell some poor young lady that he feels “called to marry her.”

Dude–STOP IT…you are freakin’ weird!

Honesty and the beginning of the relationship is NOT trying to hide who you really are OR trying to be someone else. AND…as the relationship progresses AND BOTH of you see potential…THEN the “this is how I feel” conversation needs to take place…not before.

#3 - Be Consistent

One of the things every woman in the world wants is security.

SO…guys, it is WAY UNCOOL to treat her one way when you are alone, another way in front of your friends and yet another way in front of her friends.

AND…it is so FIRST GRADE to say, “Well, she hasn’t been talking to me as much lately…so, I’m just going to give her the silent treatment.” That is not getting her attention–that is proving to her that you are a REAR END!

Treat her the same no matter what–THAT is an issue of character.

#4 - Be Patient

If the relationship isn’t moving along at the pace you want it to move–BACK OFF! If she says to leave her alone…then leave her alone. If she says to give her space–then give her space. BUT…if she says that she is undecided…but is really enjoying the friendship…then be her friend. What do you have to lose?

The last thing a girl wants to feel from a guy is pressure to make a decision. She wants to know that she can trust him…and that he likes being around her NOT because of where he might perceive the relationship heading…but because of where the relationship actually is.

How to court a lady the Filipino Style by : viol

Filipinos are conservative people andthe Filipino men have unique way of courting a lady. They will really let the woman feel that they are loved and adored. Most Filipino men are gentle and caring that makes the lady stick to them no matter what. This is a typical Filipino courtship.

Step1

Make friends with the lady. Be a gentle man by taking good care of her while walking, or when you have a ride, let her feel she is being taken cared of.

Step2

Visit her at their home and make friends with the lady's parents, bothers and sisters. Be respectful to them.

Step3

Ask permission from the girl's parents when you want to take her out for a date. Be specific of where you go and what time you will be home.

Step4

No going out for a date without the parent's approval. Show respect by Visiting her in the home instead of hanging around with other friends.

Step5

Let the girl feel she is loved by giving cards, love notes and flowers often. (Most typical Filipino ladies will not say yes immediately to a man's love proposal) They need to feel that they are special.

Step6

Man needs to be patient, waiting for the lady's approval of his love proposal. Most Filipino ladies would go out for a date as friends and man should not presumed that they are already sweetheart. He should ask the lady and must wait patiently for the YES answer.

Step7

When the lady is sure that the man's courting is sincere, the relationship began when she said YES. They should continue to respect their parents good moral values by not doing things that are not morally good.