Sunday, September 21, 2008

“ 3 Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted”

SOURCE- http://howtounderstandmen.net/

3 Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted

Ever wonder why men can act so “hot and cold” and lose interest so quickly?

You meet a great guy and share an amazing “connection”… but then he suddenly stops calling and making plans.

Why is this so common? Even with guys who seem great at first?

The truth is that even if you and a man are getting close… he won’t be honest tell you when he’s not FEELING ATTRACTED to you anymore. But the good news is that it’s easy to have a man start “feeling it” for you again- when you know what to do.

So let’s start with understanding what’s going on INSIDE HIS MIND.

If you can learn what a man is FEELING, and then learn to create feelings of ATTRACTION inside him, EVERYTHING in your relationship will become easier.

In fact, if you do this right, your man will be begging YOU for more.

Here’s where to start creating this kind of intense ATTRACTION with a man:

Tip #1: A Man Can See You As Needy, Even When You’re Not

    Did you know that a woman doesn’t actually have to be “needy” for a man to get that icky feeling inside when he’s around her? The common and subtle ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support that bring you and your “friends” closer, can actually make a man feel anxious and “smothered” by you. “Why didn’t you call yesterday?” can be the very definition of “needy” to a man.

Tip #2: Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women

    Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the “everyday” stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life... and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.

Tip #3: Creating A Level Of “Unpredictability” With Him Never Fails

    If a man can’t guess what you’ll do or say next, he’ll be thinking and wondering about you. Learn to create a level of UNPREDICTABILITY, and it will work magic. Use humor and teasing when possible. Men love it… as this is one of their primary languages for bonding and connection.

    By the way… the way you make a man feel around you in the first few minutes can decide whether you’re “just a fling” to him, or his “true love.”

    Which one will you be? Here are a few of the other things you’re about to learn:

  • How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He'll know you're "the one" for him from the first day you meet)
  • The inside scoop on what's REALLY going on inside a man's mind when you first meet, when you start dating, and when you’ve been “serious” for a while
  • How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a "casual" partner (Use this early on and he'll want to see YOU and only you ... keep it up and he'll love you forever )
  • The differences in how men think about dating... and why your man won’t think or talk “commitment” unless you know the easy ways to inspire these feelings in him
  • How to "cheat-proof" your relationship... and why he might be tempted
  • The truth about men who aren't "emotionally available"... how to know if you've got one and what to do if you're dating one
  • And lots more...

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